When a neighbor is not neighborly

We went to Pakistan with the view of improving friendly ties. But we got in return an attack of our airbase at Pathankot. We cannot let terrorists ruin our relations. There are many terrorists groups in Pakistan and they have a policy of sabotaging ties with India. So we cannot make public the fact we have friendly relations. Because these terrorist do not like it. We have lost seven men, so far. We have to become more vigilant. And we must keep international relations a secret. Otherwise, we cannot proceed. It looks like we are having war.How to take their action peacefully. We cannot. It is hurtful to see our people die. But we cannot let hatred ruin our relations. Oh these barbaric terrorists