It is Women's Day today and Indian women are wondering "are we safe" How to make us more safe?What is wrong with our society? Can we really celebrate women's day when there is so much tension in our minds? How quickly can we bring about changes in this patriarchal society? A generation or two, may be.Empowering women is our main goal now;women must form associations and join self-help groups and give confidence to each other. More cases of crimes against women is reported now. So we are more aware now then ever before.Neither new law nor police force by itself can give higher status to women. Women must aspire for a better status.Society must change for that.